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May 26, 2008

Fearless Temper-Taming 101

  

Do you have a temper? Do you sometimes make hasty decisions in the heat of the moment that you later regret? I do, and I wish I didn't.

I've learned something, though, that I'd like to share with you. It helps calm me down when I get upset so I can think clearly and act from a place of love rather than fear (so I can "act" rather than "react") in dealing with stressful people and situations.

What is it? It's a piece of paper with 4 simple questions written on it which I keep within easy reach so I can see it and read it when I need it:

Is What I Am About To Do:

  1. Really necessary???
  2. Will it help me or someone else?
  3. Will it set a good example?
  4. Will it please God?

If I take the time to answer all four questions honestly before taking action, I usually make the right choice, difficult as it might be.

Warmly and Positive-ly Yours
Sharon (Fearless Reader) Iezzi

"Down-home is where the heart is, where love is, and ultimately, where GOD is."

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May 06, 2008

Fearless Adventuring 101

  

Do you like white water rafting? I do!

Take a large inflatable raft that holds 8-10 people, a skilled river guide to keep the raft moving on a safe course, a fast moving river with some challenging rapids, and scenery on both sides that takes your breath away ... and you have the recipe for an incredibly wonderful time, or for disaster.

What makes the difference? Preparation. This means that you:

  • Write down exactly where you're going and when you expect to arrive so that people know where to find you if you need help.
  • Have a clear plan of how you'll get there plus the right tools and equipment for the journey.
  • Understand and obey the rules of safe travel, wear your life jacket at all times and follow the instructions of your guide.
  • Carry along survival supplies and a first aid kit for emergencies.
  • Have the good sense to stay away from known hazards!

Doesn't this sound a lot like life? Let me tell you a story:

Several years ago on a white water rafting trip with some friends down the Flathead River in Montana, I experienced the unexpected.

We hit what is called a "hole": a short, steep drop-off caused by a large rock underneath the surface. A big hole not seen in time can easily flip a raft. That's exactly what happened.

One minute I was rockin' and rollin', having the time of my life. The next I was flailing in the Flathead in water the temperature of just-melted snow.

Did I have a moment of close communion with my Creator? You bet I did! It's hard to imagine until we're in situations like this just how powerless we really are against the forces of nature. I was, to say the least, extremely humbled by the experience. Fortunately, because of good preparation, neither I nor anyone else in the group suffered serious injury or loss of life in this mishap.

I remember oh so well the final words of instruction we received before starting our journey:

"In the very unlikely event that you and the raft should ever become separated, keep your feet pointed downstream so you can push off from the rocks, and go with the flow until you are rescued."

Sometimes "going with the flow" of life may mean running a few rapids on your backside. Are you prepared for the ride?

Warmly and Positive-ly Yours
Sharon (Fearless Reader) Iezzi

"Down-home is where the heart is, where love is, and ultimately, where GOD is."

* * * * *

What if you had the same minute-by-minute thoughts as the super successful? Mike Brescia has developed the ultimate mental conditioning programs that can help anyone wipe out intense fears and enjoy huge successes in all areas of life.

http://thinkrightnow.cjb.net